Birthday Tidings

The snow still has yet to arrive, and it is beginning to warm up- about 11 degrees on average- so I don’t expect to see any anytime soon.  It is even beginning to melt off the mountains- although it is so foggy all the time it is hard to tell.   I met a lovely woman at the gym when we first started going. She speaks English quite well (she attended high school in Toronto) and we chat on and off whenever I see her at the gym.  On Tuesday as I was finishing up my workout, she asked if I would like to grab coffee with her at Malatya Park.  I am not in the habit of turning down invitations (although it did interfere slightly with how I had anticipated my day was going to go- I had some errands to run, but figured they could be done some other time), so naturally I said yes, went home, ate lunch and then headed out to meet her.  We wandered around a little, and she helped me buy Joe a birthday present and then we headed for coffee and to chat.  She is a very interesting woman, she was a chemical engineer for twenty five years and has recently retired.  Her husband is a chicken veterinarian (planning to retire next year) and their only son is a medical student in Vienna.  It was a lovely couple of hours (as is now normal in Turkey, she paid) with her informing me of the long list of places that I ‘must’ see before I left Turkey.  I am already fully aware of all of these places, however time and money as always will be the determining factors in these decisions.  

Our Christmas corner.

As the weather starts to get cold again (the warmth only lasted about a week), I am beginning to accept the fact that it will probably start to snow here as soon as we leave for holiday- a saddening and maddening fact.   As Christmas nears, a few shops have begun to look the part.  Of course they are all “New Years” decorations- Joe bought us a little Christmas tree and on the box, it clearly states that it is a New Year tree.  A bit odd, but it is nice to see some festivity regardless of what holiday it is apparently for.

The littlest "New Year" tree.

Other than slowly getting ready for holiday, Joe’s birthday is today, so last night I organized a small gathering at the pub in a small celebration.  I met Kubra, Ali and Buglem in the afternoon and we went to Malatya Park instead of to their house. There is a sand box there- so Kubra, Buglem and I went and played in there- after the inflatable snow globe experience.  It was a nice change of pace- although it is a little odd to leave the mall in December with snow in your socks. Not the most pleasant feeling in the world.  I went by the school and waited for Joe to get off work and then we headed to Melita.  We were the only ones there, and for a while I thought it was just going to be the two of us (Mustafa was sick, Ali’s wife is pregnant and he feels guilty leaving her at home- the smoking indoors is not good for a pregnant woman, and a couple others came up with various excuses) but eventually Gungor showed up, followed by Elif and eventually Mehmet.  All in all it turned out to be a highly enjoyable evening (albeit expensive- as I have mentioned, if you invite you pay, and they were there on my invitation) that concluded at midnight with Mehmet driving everyone home and Gungor gaily singing along to old Turkish folk songs.

Yes, the candle was bigger than the cake.

This morning was dull and grey as I headed in to work (the fact that they have started a class days before we go on holiday baffles me slightly) and then I picked up some groceries for Joe’s b-day dinner.  We were going to go see the Hobbit, but with the weather neither of us felt like moving.  We stayed in and watched Elf (Christmastime classic) and then I made Chicken Tikka Masala and garlic naan.  A very relaxing day which is needed as tomorrow when we get home it will be time to clean and pack and Sunday we are off on an adventure!  

Into the Classroom

There is of course a downside of being a ‘Native’ speaker in a city with very few of them.  People ask you to do ‘small’ favours for them, and naturally it is difficult to say no.  Last weekend, one of my co-workers (and co-owners) asked me to come into his local school on Thursday to give his students the opportunity to practice speaking English.  Now I like Gunger, so naturally I said yes, and bright and early on Thursday morning (far earlier than I am used to being awake on a Thursday) he came by and picked me up and drove me out to the village (about 15 minutes from my house) where he works.  It was a small school, and for that day I was the gangly giraffe being gaped at from all angles, never before seen in such a strange environment.  Or that’s what it felt like at least.  Minus the crude shouting I had flashbacks to life in Jakarta.

We sat in the teacher’s room and drank tea- he had told me not to prepare any lesson plans nor given me any topics on which to teach, so I sat there searching my brain for activities that I could do with 30 odd students for two hours.  Basics of course because I wasn’t expecting them to be very good, although I was pleasantly surprised at their level of English- still quite low for the most part, but better than I had anticipated.  It turned out to be a lot of fun, Gunger is an excellent teacher (he actually teaches them in English instead of in Turkish whenever possible) and his students were much better at English than I had been expecting after visiting Mustafa’s school a few weeks prior, and I ranged my topics from thing such as holidays (explaining Thanksgiving was a bit challenging- none in the least for his referral to Natives as ‘red Indians’, which I quickly shot down as highly offensive- my eyes fully widened in surprise) and appearance (although when asked to describe one student, they all said she was ‘fat’; I bit my tongue thinking how much trouble that student would have been in back in Canada) and other such spur of the moment topics.  I was not, however, expecting to teach all day, and by the time I had taught six hours of teenagers (with a nice lunch break in the middle where all the students brought in food from home) I was exhausted, and still had to go out to see Buglem that night.

Some of the school children.

I was all prepared with books that Dad had found and sent out from Canada for her but it turned out that she had just got a new trampoline (a little one for her room), so that was taking up most of her attention, and the books got a little sidelined- although Kubra was quite pleased with their arrival so that was good.  She is slowly beginning to understand me, although unless prompted, she won’t say much.  She has learned the song, “Rain, rain go away” and we are working on “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” but “Head and Shoulders” reduced her to a blubbering mess as she thought the actions were too difficult to copy.  Of course she had a bit of a fever so that might have been part of it, and we will try again next time because it would be a good song for her to learn.  Kubra is picking up English quite well, and I can also see why they say that learning a new language from children is a good idea- my understanding of Turkish is improving by visiting their twice a week.

Lunch food the kids brought from home.  Quite a feast.

Weekend classes are slowly coming to the end of term- some have just wrapped up and the others will be shortly, meaning that new ones should be beginning soon, but I am secretly hoping that they don’t start them until after the Christmas holiday- which we have mostly booked (four days in Izmir, three days in Marmaris, and four days in Antalya) and are starting to get excited about- although the prospect of more eighteen hour bus journeys is a titch tedious.  The things you must do to save a dime.   I had an interesting conversation with one of my Intermediate classes, we were talking about history and why English is the de facto language around the world, and one of my students asked why the early Presidents in the US are so highly regarded when they were involved in slavery and the mistreatment of the Natives and such.  I thought about saying that unfortunately terrible things often occur with the start of a new nation, and that of course Turkish history is far from unblemished if you ask the Cypriots or the Armenians, but thought better of it.  Their English isn’t quite good enough for that kind of a debate.  Joe did ask his speaking class what they thought about the Turkish Presidents remarks on women’s roles (if you haven’t read the article, I highly recommend it) and they had mixed opinions, but generally thought he had the right idea.  One of the best parts of living in a country is learning people’s opinions.  It gives excellent food for thought.

Occasional Daily Quirks

           The arrival of the internet coincided with the default of our phones.  One day Joe’s told him he had no service, and the next day mine did as well.  Since we got our phone number’s a day apart, Joe figured something was up (and we had just topped up so it couldn’t have been that) so we went into the store to try and figure it out.  The people at the store couldn’t figure it out.  It was saying that the accounts were active on their computers, and so eventually they put our SIM cards into one of the employees phones and lo and behold it worked.  He didn’t seem to understand why- just told us there was a problem with our phones- which Joe and I found suspicious, but then another employee (with the help of Google Translate- how people communicated without the internet is beyond me) told us that since our phones were registered on foreign passports, we could no longer use them in Turkey and that we would have to buy a Turkish phone.  This country has some funny rules.  They told us that even once our work visas arrive, we still couldn’t, but our boss said we can, so now we will wait and see what happens and hopefully it will all work out.  We still have internet at home and at the school, so we can still communicate, but it does make things a titch difficult. 

                 

              While I see that Vancouver has received some snow, it is merely taunting me from the mountaintops here, and December has rang in nice and wet, reminding me of home.  Other than that, it doesn’t feel like Christmas.  Most Turks don’t even know what day of the year Christmas is, often explaining that December 31 is ‘Turkish Christmas’, but as that is not a thing, both Joe and I have difficulties actually getting that point across.  The end of November coincided with St. Andrew’s Day, and some of Joe’s students are aware of Scottish pride and the conception of the kilt.  (How they know what a kilt is and not when Christmas is baffles me slightly, but continuing on)  Joe, ever being up for some sort of shock value, agreed to wear his kilt for the occasion.  I was mildly bemused by this concept, although I did inform him that if he chose to wear it on the bus, I would not be present for the occasion.  He agreed that the bus might not be a good choice, and instead carried it in and changed when he got to school.  Since we work at different schools during the day, I was not present for most of it, although when I asked him how it was going, he said that he had posed for a lot of photos, that his legs were very cold, and that while the women seemed to like it, the men didn’t seem to approve.  All of the other teachers felt the need to show me the pictures (as though I have never seen Joe in a kilt) and I nodded and listen to their amused takes on the day’s events.  Elif told me that it was a day the students would never forget, and since they will most likely never go to Scotland, she is probably right.

Joe and one of his students.

              

             I am still in the process of slowly learning Turkish- picking up words here and there and using the internet the rest of the time.  I kept hearing the word ayna, which I knew means ‘mirror’, but from the context, it simply didn’t make sense for people to be saying mirror all the time, so I figured it must have some other meaning, or I was hearing it wrong.  I did some more looking and found aynen which means ‘same’, but this still didn’t seem to fit with context, so I asked Elif and Mehmet one day when I heard it.  Elif said that it meant mirror, and I refuted her.  It can’t possibly mean mirror when I hear it this often.  They clued in that I was indeed hearing aynen (although I could swear they drop the final ‘n’ in spoken Turkish, because I had been listening intently for it.  I again refuted that it must mean something else, and fortunately (based on the amount I was hearing it and the amount people usually say ‘same’ in English.  Luckily, Mehmet clued in to what I was getting at and said that it can also mean, “I agree,” or the like.  We had a good laugh, as did some of my students who were there at the time, but it was nice to have one mystery solved in a language I am slowly beginning to understand.

                

             As one mystery was solved, another is ongoing.  I am used to living on the top floor of an apartment building, and here in Malatya is no different.  The main difference is that we have excruciatingly loud neighbours and we can’t figure out where they are coming from.  Most of the rooms don’t border any other apartments, but there is constant thumping and crying children and the like.  We have concluded that they must be our downstairs neighbours, but never having met them to see if they have children or not, (and knowing that our next door neighbours do) we have yet to determine if this is the cause.  It is not pleasant wherever they are coming from, that much we have determined.

                

Culture and Difference

              This week I asked my Upper Intermediate class what was the most important thing that Turkish culture has given to the world.  It wasn’t an easy question, and I saved it until the end of a class where we had been discussing cultural differences, but none of them could give me an answer, so I told them to dwell on it and I would ask them again next week.  It is a topic I have been mulling over this past week, while I was doing research for my classes, but if someone asked me the same thing about Canada, what would I say? 

                

My new winter coat- I opted away from yellow.

              Culture is an interesting concept as the world grows smaller, and having last lived in a city like Jakarta, it is a bit of an adjustment to the more conservative viewpoints of people in Malatya.  For most of them alcohol is a sin, pork is a sin.  There is no alternative.  When I told me class that on Easter many people eat ham, one of my student’s faces contorted in the utmost disgust at the mere concept of anyone consuming pork.  Granted he is an imam (Muslim religious leader) who spends most of my classes in shock (“Teacher, do people lie in Canada?”  Me- “People lie everywhere!  It has nothing to do with Canada!) asking questions relentlessly and trying to goad me into admitting that the west is immoral. (“Really?  People drink alcohol at weddings?”- me “Some people.  Not all people.”)  There are only two weeks left with that class, and both myself and my Turkish co-teacher, Ali, are thrilled to see the back of him (Ali: “When this class finishes, I will never see that man again.”) 

                

           The rest of my students are more open-minded, however they have their moments.   I asked one class what was disgusting food and they responded that Chinese food was disgusting.  I was a bit taken aback as I love Chinese food, so I asked them why.  Their response?  Chinese people eat insects.  After registering my surprise because while it is probably true that in rural China people do eat insects, that would never have been my first thought.  So naturally the next question I posed was if they had ever actually eaten/seen Chinese food?  No.  Never.  Turkish food.  It’s all about Turkish food- and while I do love Turkish food, I miss variety. 

               

Fresh off the barbaque

               That being said, my students are fantastic.  They are all writing exams this week, so the classes have been half full at best.  Throwing my lesson plans out the window for one or two students is my favourite thing to do: we talk, and it’s fun.  One of my elementary students from a class I share with Elif invited us to a barbeque on Saturday night.  Despite my reservations (weekends are exhausting enough without a social life) I agreed, and she and her friends picked us up from school to take us to Yesilyurt.  We drove into the middle of nowhere (or at least it felt like that in the dark) and down a country-esque road to what I can only describe as a cottage- except it was only a kitchen and living room with a large patio and an outhouse.  Whether or not that was it or the rest of the house was hiding somewhere, I have no idea- it was too dark to tell, but the lot looked pretty enough.  They had started off the barbeque, the men putting together kofte (meatballs) and kebabs while the women finished the salads (Turkish salads I can’t remember the names of) and tziziki in the kitchen, and the rest of us stood outside and chatted until it was so miserably cold we retreated inside- only heated by a heat lamp, it didn’t improve things much, but it did block out the wind. 

Simply delicious.

               The food was fantastic (as I hadn’t had time to eat since 6am that morning- like I said, weekends are tiring) and the beer was good (all free of course- I will never tire of Turkish hospitality) and after dinner there was a big Turkish sing-along/pow wow, complete with guitar, although lacking the bonfire.  Having been out on to the pub on Thursday as well with a different co-worker (making friends is exhausting- you always have to say yes to invitations- only when you are comfortable with your relationships can you start turning people down) and I was tired.  We got home at a reasonable hour, but by the time I had washed the firey smoke smell out of my hair and gotten settled, it felt like it was time to get up again.

              

Elif, Ebru and I.  (Don't remember the other woman's name...)

               Two other big excitements of the week, were of course, the arrival of internet in our home.  This has opened up endless possibilities in communication, yoga videos, vacation planning and recipe finding.  I also look forward to the ability to study Turkish with more than Google Translate- hopefully I will be able to wow you all with my linguistic prowess, but only time will tell  The other was my first Teacher’s Day gift!   Today is Teacher’s Day: whether this is an international day or just a Turkish one, I have no idea, but it’s fun.  Kubra (Buglem’s mom) being the most thoughtful person on the planet, had Buglem give me a clock (which Buglem opened for me and then cried because she didn’t get to keep it, but still) which is now sitting proudly in my kitchen, although it’s a ticking clock so the battery may shortly be removed and it will be solely for decoration, but we shall see how badly it irritates me first.  It is amazing how that started out as a job, and has quickly turned into the highlight of my week.  Again, Turkish hospitality knows no bounds.  (Side note: although tonight I was buying wine in the shops and I saw Ali (Buglem’s father Ali, not my co-worked Ali) at the till, and I definitely hid in an aisle until he was out sight, in case he thought ill of me for drinking alcohol.  It’s been a long time since I did that and yes, I am fully aware that it was unnecessary- it seemed more polite not to flaunt the fact..  It’s amazing how quickly your mindset can be altered in an attempt to be culturally sensitive.  

My teacher's day clock!

From Apricots to Elazig

Apricots and nuts.

                            I was not aware of the multidude of uses that have been found for the apricot.  In fact, I have never really thought much about the apricot before- it had never really appeared on my radar- entered my world.  Until Malatya.  Malatya is famous for their apricots.  On Monday, Mustafa called.  After lunch with Habib and Dogan, we went and met him and went for a walk around Malatya.  We went through the market (that Onder had already showed us) and the metal shops and then down into the apricot shops.  He has a friend who owns a shop, and his wife was there and she made us sample one type of dried apricot after another.  It was never ending, and after a filling lunch of lamajan (Turkish pizza) a bit difficult to eat my way through.  There were apricot oils, apricot Turkish delight, apricot kebabs (flavoured with pomegranate, apple and every other fruit you can imagine), apricot soaps, shampoos, lotions ( I did buy some hand cream and it smells delicious) and chocolate covered apricots and those are just the ones I can remember off the top of my head. 

Apricot kebabs

Joe and Mustafa

                 I would be hard pressed to think of a use for apricots that these people have not come up with.  After our time at the shop, we headed into the poor neighbourhood (Mustafa used to work there and I was pleased he took us- it is important to know all sides of a city if you are going to be a resident) so that he could get some photocopying done and we went and had tea and chatted while it was finishing.  I left them drinking tea a bit early as I had to go to see Buglem and hunt for a winter jacket along the way.  I  found a beautiful yellow winter jacket that was sadly out of my price range (although Joe told he that it was ugly and he was glad it was out of my price range, so I guess one of us is happy) but I found another yellow one later on, so he may still lose in the long run if I decide to buy it.  But I am still mulling over it.

Apricots and Turkish delight.

                The week passed in a blur of uneventfulness until Friday when Joe's students from last week plus their Turkish teacher he shares the class with (Feliz- a lovely woman with a musical laugh) picked us up at 4pm and we headed for Elazig.  It was unfortunately too dark to take pictures out the window although the scenery was beautiful from what I can tell.  We went and had kavarma (which I forgot to take a picture of although I could have sworn I did) which was meat baked with vegetables in a clay dish.  It was better than the fish although still not my favourite.  We didn't get into to ELazig until late, parked, walked around and stopped for a hot beverage before heading to Harput- an old historical castle just outside of Elazig with a spectacular view of the city and a lot of history.  Joe and I have plans to go back in daylight hours at some point and actually do a proper mini tour.  We didn't get home until about midnight which was a bit rough before our long weekend hours but it was nice to get some social outlets.

Seafood and Cheese

           Happy Remembrance Day!  A day that is not celebrated in Turkey, although I am not quite sure why.  According to my students, Turkey participated in World War I but not in World War II- they had too many internal conflicts to deal with.  From the bits and scraps I can pick up from their broken English, I look forward to having internet in the house so that I can do a little more research into Turkish history.  We have made a fabulous discovery- and by we, I mean ‘I’, but it is a glorious discovery so I will share undeserved glory with Joe.  Beer!  Walking distance from the house!  Not a pub or anything like that, but a shop with a blue sign (oddly enough right outside the mosque but I will take what I can get) that has a friendly shopkeeper and cold beer.  There really isn’t much for excitement here, and although we will probably continue to buy beer in town, it is nice to know that the locations extend outside the city center.

Kunefe- deep fried cheese in syrup.

             

                 I am continuing to ‘babysit’ Buglem twice a week and she is a little cutie.  Her mother obviously is practicing with her quite often because each time I come she has new things to say (I love you teacher is my favourite so far) and since she is only two and a bit, sometimes we have to bribe her with jellybeans to get any English out of her and sometimes she gets very confused.  She threw a mini fit today when Kubra tried to explain that ‘balik’ is ‘fish’ in English.  She kept insisting it was ‘balik’ and did not like being told otherwise.  Technically she was right, so we pulled out some playdough and changed the topic.  True to what I have encountered so far, the hospitality of Kubra and Ali is fabulous.  They always have food or Turkish coffee or something of the like for me, and often send some home for Joe as well.

                

Trout baked in cheese.

               We finally had another outing.  On Friday night Joe and I were exhausted.  We had gone to the gym and then pretty much done nothing the rest of the day.  I was in pajamas, heating up dinner when Joe’s student Ahmet called.  He had invited us for dinner that night, but since it had been a week and we had heard nothing, we assumed it wasn’t happening (this happens quite regularly here).  However this was not the case, and he would be arriving in fifteen minutes to pick us up.  Muttering unpleasantries, I turned off the stove and went to put on proper clothes and head out into the cold to wait.  He and his friend (another student in Joe’s class) who between the two of them can barely string together enough English for a conversation (they are beginners) pulled up.  We headed about 50km outside of Malatya (driving roughly 150km/hr around winding roads- I tried not to watch the speedometer and was silently grateful that Turks don’t generally consume alcohol) to a town called Surgu- famous for their fish restaurants.  We had trout baked deep in cheese (almost ruining the flavour of the fish) and then kunefe for dessert (the best way I can describe it is deep fried cheese soaking in syrup- decently tasty but not something I would order again).  It was a pleasant enough evening for the amount of conversation we could muster, but after tea and a promise to do this again, they drove us home- a good thing as weekends are tediously long and this one was no exception.

                

           

After dinner selfie.

                  I love teaching English- for the most part my students are enthusiastic and interesting.  They love to chat upstairs inbetween classes and practice their English or just generally joke around.  Usually the other teachers are there too, and so Elif will help translate if need be, but usually it isn’t.  I am pretty good at guessing what someone is trying to say after three years of teaching English.  This week they had me doing Turkish tongue twisters (as payback for the English ones I make them do in class) and I do it.  I figure if they struggle through my classes, laughing at me (in good fun of course) is an encouraging way to make them open up more in class.  However, on occasion you get a class where the students as a whole don’t want to speak English.  They are there for exam prep, and I pity them because they don’t realize that they cant learn the language properly without knowing how to speak.  That’s the natural order of language.  Look at children.  I have never encountered students who want to learn grammar and not speaking before.  Usually it’s all, nothing or speaking.  A bit odd.  By the time I am eight classes in out of eight- no time for food of course, I forget how to spell (prompting one of my students to ask me if English was indeed my first language) and my arm feels like it is going to fall off from writing on and erasing the board all day, but despite the busyness of it, I really enjoy the weekends.  I go home feeling like I have accomplished something and that is a satisfying feeling.

Winter is Coming

          November is upon us- and for the first time in a few years, I must say that it actually feels like November.  Things have started becoming more routine here- days off are fairly regular, gym days, classes, cooking and the like.  I have been on a soup frenzy- cooking a new soup every week and it has been a lot of fun finding new recipes and such.  There have not been any new developments.  I went for a gorgeous walk yesterday and watched the leaves change colour and the sun glisten through the chilly autumn air.  As wonderful a walk as one can get I do imagine. 

               

Just a hint of snow on the mountains

            Last Monday, Mustafa asked us for a favour.  He teaches English at the high school across the street from our house, and he wanted us to come in and teach a class so that his students would perhaps be more enthused to learn English (something I have a feeling will be becoming more common as Gunger has also asked and I assume many more will too).  Although I was not too keen to go back into a high school (I had enough of that with the Japanese kids) we agreed and it was actually a lot of fun.  I have never taught with Joe, so that was interesting in itself as well.  Afterwards the three of us went into town back to Arkadas Café, to meet a couple that was looking for an English speaking babysitter (for lack of a better word) for their 27 month old daughter and expose her to English.  Mustafa had found this couple through a friend, and we were arranging how it would work out.  I agreed to go there on Thursday and meet the little girl and see what they were wanting and then decide if it was something I was interested in doing.

               

The trees and the mountains

             It turns out Thursday was a busy day (even though it was technically my day off) because Mehmet took us to the police station to finally start registering for our residential visa.  This should not have been so complicated but it was.  When we arrived in Turkey (almost two months ago) we paid our entry, got a little piece of paper and then a stamp.  They took the paper for the stamp, but immigration did not understand.  Apparently we needed the piece of paper (which was made redundant by the stamp) that they kept at the airport (no one had informed us thusly) and because Mehmet doesn’t speak English, we kept passing the phone back and forth to Yashar (who was at work) to help us translate.  Fortunately, someone knew somebody in Ankara, and they agreed to process our information.  We went back to the school and filled out the forms- including a copy of a bank statement saying we each had $3000.00  (again, we were not told we needed this money) and that was a bit frustrating as Joe does not have that money in his account.  Onder called to see if I could transfer the money from my account to Joe’s and then back (he apparently does not know of the woes of international bank transfers which I became far too familiar with last year) and I point blank told him it was impossible so they figured something else out.

              

One more- I never tire of fall colours

                  Between running back and forth between buildings trying to sort out paperwork, Habib cooked us lunch- pide firini (Turkish pizza) and it was fabulous.  It is my turn this week to make ‘Canada soup” (Turkish soup is cream based) so that is my task for Thursday this week and we seem to be forming a little lunch club.  We ran to one more building with Dogan after lunch (cutting it close for me to get to this babysitting gig) and filled out more paperwork before I quickly gathered my things and headed out.  IT was raining and miserable out, but I still prefer walking to bussing, so I moved quickly through the streets to my meeting spot with them (the Carrefour) so they could take me to their house- a beautifully furnished apartment about a thirty minute walk from the school.

               

Pide Firini

               The whole family was home, the grandmother made me Turkish coffee, and the mother (Kubra) stayed with me most of it to make sure her daughter was comfortable.  We played and read books (me speaking English, her largely ignoring that fact) for an hour and then Kubra and her husband Ali drove me home.  Busra (the little girl) was very upset she didn’t get to come inside with me, and all in all it was nice to get out of the house and be around people, so I will be going there twice a week to ‘babysit’.   By Friday I was exhausted as my days off had been at work, so Joe and I went to the gym and then I made butter chicken for dinner in anticipation of another long weekend.

Lunch with Dogan and Habib